On Relationships

For whatever reason, I have always been intrigued by Buddhist teachings. I think there is a great deal of truth and goodness to be found within Buddhism. That being said, I think the Buddhist philosophy falls short in some of the most important things, particularly when it comes to relationships. 

Buddhism presents our attachments as the cause of our suffering, and so the solution to our sufferings is to detach ourself from everything. This includes worldly possessions, food, wealth, and also relationships and family.

In family and other relationships we will at times be hurt or suffer. That does not mean, however, that we should detach ourselves from these relationships. Yes, there is potential for suffering, but also for greater joy and love than we could ever otherwise experience. In this thing, Buddhism is wrong. We should not forfeit relationships and vulnerability towards another as a means to avoid suffering.

From a Latter-day Saint perspective, the Lord has instructed us to "lay aside the things of this world, and seek for the things of a better" (D&C 25:10). Relationships are a thing of a better world! Our most important relationships can continue into the eternities and are essential to our eternal joy. 

A graveyard in Switzerland where many of my ancestors are buried